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9月13日

Bootees and Mittens

Last Sunday, September 10, I suddenly felt the excitment of having a baby. I washed 6 mittens and 6 bootees for my baby, although she's still in my womb .  I ask my husband to get me 1 bar of Perla then I went to the back of our house to wash the mittens and bootees. I asked my husband to get the hanger in the other room then I hang the mittens and the bootees in the hanger and put the hanger under the sun  to kill the germs. I felt fullfilled and happy at that time. Pray for my delivery guys.  Thanks.
6月1日

baby name

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Rylan
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5月15日

counting our 1st year Anniversary

Ronnell and Lian 1st year Anniversary
Daisypath Ticker

5月9日

Baby names

Last Sunday night, Ronnell and I talked about the possible name for our soon to be born baby. First I told him if the baby is a girl we will name her Arwen then he told me that my friends will asscociate it from the movie Lord of the Rings. The next baby name I told him was Lorelie or Rory then he commented again and told me that the baby might pronounce it wrong when she is asked her name. Ok so thought of a name again then I told him Lorie then he agreed with the name Lorie. Then its his turn to think of a name if our baby is a boy he told me that having a three word or three syllables in a name is lucky. So he thought of so many names then later on he told me that a name could be from a classic composer like Sebastian Bach or a vocalist of a band named Sebastian Arkadi or it could be a name of a saint like San Sebastian. So I agreed wit the name Sebastian. Then yesterday he sent me an email with a url (http://www.behindthename.com/nmc/bibl.php) we looked at it then he liked the name Lemuel. 
           
             LEMUEL

Gender: Masculine

Usage: Biblical

Pronounced: LEM-yoo-el

 

Means "belonging to God" in Hebrew.This was the name of a king in the Old Testament. IT was also the first name of the hero of Jonathan Swift's novel 'Gulliver's Travels'.

 

As of now, ou two favorite names are: for the baby girl is Lorie and for the baby boy is Lemuel. Do you have another suggestion?

5月2日

Maternity Dress

Last Sunday evening , my husband, Nell and I went   to Sta. Lucia to buy  a new maternity dress. Actually my husband  was the one who insisted to buy me a dress. When we were in maternity dress section, he would look for a dress for me and he would even tell me if its good for me or not he is such a sweet person. So he bought me blue maternity dresss and a pink maternity pants. He told me to also buy myself a pair of maternity dress so I bought a pink maternity blouse and a white maternity pants. We bought the maternity in large size so that i'll be able to use it untill 9 months. After he bought me a maternity dress, I thanked him.
 
He is such a piece of work because I can't guess whats running on his mind. He acts like a kid then the next thing he will do is to surprise  me. I love him..  
4月27日

Banana Tree

One morning I ask Nell if it’s easy to plant and to take care of a banana tree . Then he explained to me that the old tree has to be cut off to give way for the new tree...  so on and so forth... Then he told me that banana has no seed and then I remember my officemate gave me a banana and told me that the banana has a seed. So I told Nell that not all banana has no seed, then he told me again that banana has no seed, when I ate Lacatan, there is no seed and so on and so forth. He got irritated  and that morning  was awful for both of us. Then night  came and we are about to go to sleep  he told me what had happened in their office. He was given a banana-Q and when he ate it to his amazed   the banana has a seed but he told me that it is not a seed… so on and so forth...  and then he told me how the banana is being planted so on and so forth... the end of story

 
The lesson of that story was not to neglect the opinion of others, have an open communication and be more understanding.
 
4月25日

Invitation to view my Baby Gift Registry

Hello!
I have set a Baby Gift Registry on Lilypie.com. 

Click on this link if you would like to view and comment on my Lilypie Wishlist.

http://lilypie.com/login.php?u=3935&f=tDQc4Ma5K1CmRCI

Warm Regards,
lian
4月18日

Bedroom

my husband and I changed the settings of our bedroom. First I broomed the dirt in the floor and wiped away the dirt in the windows. We positioned our bed in somewhat middle of the room. He moved the computer and put it in front of our bed. He remove the Dvd player and put it near the window. He put the electric fan near the Dvd player in front of the open window, enough to get the wind breeze if we will open the electric fan. There are some arguments about the electric fan and which side of the bed we will sleep. In electric fan, I argued about him to use the electric fan even though its not a stand fan, we got it from our wedding and he did not agree instead he told me we will buy a new stand fan. So, I stopped arguing so that we will be able to finish our task. I'm in the right side of the bed and ronnell wants to exchange his place, he is telling sweet nothings about the left side of the bed. Luckily, I didn't bite it. When we are done setting and cleaning our room, we are so excited it seems like its our first time sleeping in our bed
 
Its really really fun  being with your partner most especially when both of you are participating in one task. Though there are sometimes arguments it will still be fixed because both of you have one goal and that is finishing the task you both started.

Me and my baby

My baby in my womb is 4 months old last friday, April 14, 2006. Often times, when I show my tummy to my husband, Ronnell, he would smile  back at me and we will kiss  each other. I am happy  because we'll finally have a baby and we will be a family. There are times when my baby is moving, I put my hands in my tummy just to feel my baby moving and I end up smiling  like a crazy woman :D Sometimes I would lie down in our bed and daydream about our babys' future and again I end up smiling like a crazy woman :D
 
I think when a woman gets pregnant and realize that she will soon be a mother they never stop smilling for they feel that babies are gift from God and mothers are entrusted to take good care of them.s
2月14日

our first baby

Last Saturday I had my ultrasound in Medical City - Cainta
 
My baby was 7 weeks and 1 days as of Feb. 11, 2006. The baby has a pulsation of 151 bpm.The normal pulsation of a baby inside the womb was 110 - 160 bpm. My expected delivery was September 29, 2006. The doctor told me that n\my delivery might be early before that week or 1st week of October. The sex of the baby can be seen in 2nd Trimester( starting June 06).
 
My husband and I was happy  that our baby doesn't have a problem concerning his or her health. We are more happy  when we're able to view the babys' picture when he or she was taken or captured  by the ultrasound and later on the doctor gave us a printed copy of the babys' picture.
 
We thanked God for giving us a child. We hope to be guided by Him in rearing our child.
2月6日

Pregnancy Test

Schedule: Have an Annual Physical Exam. Need to have stool for APE
 
Early Saturday , I woke up and brought my pregnancy test and  container for my stool in the comfort room. Then I remove each pregnancy test in their box. When I was ready to pee, I suddenly felt that I have to release my bowel, I was tense I don't know what to do. So I told my self that I have to be calm first, so I went out of the comfort room to get a few toothpick for my excreta (ewww!!!) then I return to the comfort room while releasing my excreta I felt that I'll be also peeing at the same time. So I get my container for my urine and position it. After that scenario, I clean my self first then I dropped one of the pregnancy test in my urine and the other 2 I dropped 3 to 4 of my urine. 
A couple of minutes , the result was there. I was happy  . I woke up Ronnell and told him to look at something. I gave him one of the box that has the instruction of how to know if the result is positive or negative. When he saw the instruction and the first pregnancy test he smiled  back at me then the second pregnancy test he smiled  back at me again and also the last pregnancy test.
After that we hugged tight and I suddenly told him that I have to clean the front yard then he said to me "no, you have to take a bath for your annual physical exam and we have to hurry" and then I said "ok" with a smile  on my face.
 
1月16日

Love Languages

Risa told me about the five love languages, she knew this from Gray Chapman.

These are:

  1. Words of Affirmation
  2. Receiving Gifts
  3. Quality Time
  4. Acts of Service
  5. Physical Touch

Then Risa asked me what are the 2 highest love languages for me,

I say Quality Time and Physical Touch.

Quality Time . Quality Time for me is when me and my husband are watching movies  together, shopping together, walking together from GT Tower to MSE(makati stock exchange) or Enterprise after our work, eating  together in a fancy restaurant, cleaning our room together, playing badminton together and cooking together.

Physical Touch . Physical touch for me is when he hugs me and when I hug him. When he kisses  me and when I kisses him. When he held my head and when I pat his head. When he .

Then I told Risa the 2 best Love Languages for my husband might be: Words of Affirmation and Physical Touch.

How about you what are the 2 best Love languages for you?

Glass of Water

There are times when I was exhausted and thirsty, 50% he is also thirsty. That is why I when get a glass of water for me I also get a glass of water for my husband. Whether he is in our room or in our garage or backyard, I gave him a glass of water, ofcourse, except if he is in the comfort room or in the roof of the house then after that he always pays me with a smile  on his face and a sweet word, thanks.

I just realize the golden rule of confucius  "Do things you would want to have done to you" And you know what guys? my husband is also giving me a glass of water when he is exhausted and thirsty, except when I have done something that irritates  him.

1月6日

Christmas 2005

 
It was our first time together  to celebrate Christmas. I am happy  because we celebrated it together and with my family in Parañaque. I helped my Mama in making Bake Macaroni and Ronnell and I cooked the ham we brought. When it is already 12am , we opened our gifts , my nice and nephews are so excited . Ronnell got bench T-shirt and I got a foundation makeup and a two sleeveless shirt both from my sister. We ate crab, lapu-lapu, bake mac, cooked ham, and lechon. It was a very happy moment for me.

Good Work!

 
It was morning  of December 27, 2005 , I wash our clothes since ate Maribel did not come last Monday to our house  I put aside the clothes for the meantime so that I can be of help in cooking our lunch. After helping my sister-in-law in washing the plates, I continue washing the clothes. I went to our room as soon as I am done then as I was about to lay down the bed, I saw the party box in the lower portion of the cabinet. The lower portion of the cabinet is not organize before but he managed to clean it by putting his cds and cd cases inside the party box then I told him ‘’Good Work’’. He laughs at me then his eyes suddenly rolled  in the side of the cabinet then I was surprised it says in the yellow post it:
 
Dear Lian
 
I love you
 
From Nell
 
My heart almost melts . In that situation, I suddenly remembered the tips in having a long lasting relationship. It is the tip that I wanted to do for him and he amazed me.
12月21日

Spending time with Ronnell

Its Christmas time once again. And it's different coz I'll be spending christmas with my husband, Ronnell. Though I already been to Toy Kingdom  with my friend Risa and her sister, Ate Nympha, and buy few christmas gifts with them, I still want to but gifts with my husband since its our first time as a legitimate couple.
One of the most exciting part for me is the time when we bought the gifts for our loved ones, and most especially for our God Sons and God Daughters.

We bought the gifts for our godsons and goddaughters in Toy Kingdom. There are lots of toys to choose like barbie accesories, spiderman toy, care bears, chico toy, controlled cars, etc. We both decide what gifts  to buy for each of them. And I'm really really happy at that time.
 
I'm so so glad that Christmas time arrived because I have build another memory with my husband and its a memory of spending time with him.
11月30日

King Size

Early morning I woke up Ronnell. I suddenly felt that I need his help folding the king size blanket. The king size blanket was a wedding gift from a relative, actually it comes with the pillow case and a cover for the mattress. Moving on, while we are folding the blanket together, I felt something different. I felt fulfilled having a husband like Ronnell and being his wife.
 
Now its your turn to share. Have you sincerely, done things together with your husband or hubby or wife or girlfriend? How and What did you feel?
10月20日

Discipline and Deal goes together

SCENARIO: 
I often notice that Ronnell forgets to put his clothes in dirty basket when he went out of the
bathroom and that makes me crazy . Then usually when I saw it in the bathroom sink, I get his clothes
then show it to him so that he will know that I have seen his clothes in the bathroom sink. I've been
doing that many times and then I felt I'll be mad if this will continue, luckily until I am able to come
up with something , a deal.

 
ACTION:
 The deal is there will be a fine of 50 pesos, for the person who forgets to put the clothes in dirty
basket. Actually I was puzzled because I also forgot to put my clothes in dirty basket and also the funny
thing is Ronnell came to me and showed me my clothes, just like what I'm doing when he forgets
his clothes in the bathroom sink.
 
POINT OF VIEW
 From that scenario, having a deal to discipline either of us lessens arguments  and that makes me smile all the way.

 
PS:
 As of now the money in the pot is 250 pesos. So imagine how many times Ronnell and I forgets our
clothes in the bathroom .
10月18日

Project: Dungo-RavagoNuptial Webpage

Yesterday night, Oct. 17, 2005, Ronnell and I discussed about our little project. He commented on what I have done at first I was mad at him because of his comment but then later on I understood him. What I did was I combined all the parts in one html file such as the header, navigation and the details wherein it is not what he taught of, so after the explanation he did,we had some arguments then I finally agreed on what he meant.
Communication! communication... its funny how others doesn't give alot attention on communication. In my point of view, I found it mysterious because two people conversing with each other and mostly ideas, opinions are different but then these two people managed to understand each other although there are some arguments but these arguments are carefully solved.
I love conversing with Ronnell he makes me smile, laugh, mad, crazy and proud of myself.